My sympathies to LW; it could be so very hard to avoid unproductive habits.
Nowhere inside her page was SLAP explicit as to what she desired. She stated she desired ‘emotional connection’, but, beyond that, did not explain exactly just just what this will appear to be or feel to her e.g. A loving, monogamously committed long-term relationship. I’d think she requires the courage to look at by by herself to learn just just what she actually hopes for–especially whether or not it’s kiddies, only at that stage that is late. This does not mean telling by herself she’s a failure if she does not obtain it; it instead means being upfront with herself about this and strategising on how to offer by herself the very best shot at it.
After which. It should be put by her on the profile, undoubtedly? One thing like ‘no longer interested in hookups and seeking to relax’. She’d get less interest from men–but still some interest through the right type of guy (on her)? This woman is not any longer at a phase of her life where she has to get approval that is male intercourse. Continue reading